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RIP: Winston Rand

Went to visit Nobody Asked (aka, the "Center for Artificial Indifference") today, and was shocked to see a post from Winston's "Roomie" saying he'd passed away.

Winston and I had just communicated recently, just reaffirmed our mutual admiration. Apparently, he fell suddenly ill last week, and three surgeries couldn't save him.

He had an omnivorous mind -- curious, in more ways than one -- and a sharp wit. Some of his writing was wistful, like this post about how you can't go home again, or this one, entitled "A Will to Live," about surviving despite the odds and not giving up.

He wrote a post about 10 days ago titled "Fears of My Demise." The one before that: "Abandon All Hope, Ye Who Enter Here." Of course, they were just about his fear of updgrading WordPress and losing everything.

It's we who have lost.

Checked the traffic on my blog just now, and saw there was a visit from Nobody Asked last night. At exactly midnight. Thanks, Winston, for stopping by.

You should stop by, too, at his fine blog, and pay your respects.

--T.A.

Where to go -- when you really need to go -- in L.A.

My niece has unveiled a blog that's witty and useful, ribald and resourceful.

Sh reviews bathrooms in public venues in Los Angeles. I think this is a brilliant idea, and one that she should publish in local papers.  Every coffee house, music store, and cafe she visits will be reviewed in the harsh fluorescent light of her wicked prose.

Be sure to check this blog if you're out in L.A.: you never know what's waiting for you in that stall.

My advice: don't go -- unless you go here first.

--T.A.

An addition to the blog-roll

David Lopez dug me up after Googling his way to my post on "Neural Buddhists and the Rest of Us."

He is part of a fascinating blog called The Immanent Frame, which he describes as "a blog on religion, secularism and the public sphere, produced by the Social Science Research Council" (the blog, that is, not the public sphere).

Here's his post on the subject, which is part of a series.

Read, in your copious spare time; read, learn and enjoy.

--T.A.

Into the blogosphere, like a pebble into the ocean, drops . . .

My 800th post.

--T.A.

Random stuff I just wanted to share, all crammed into one post

  • My brother has written a novel! And gotten it published! I've bought 15 copies -- one for me, 14 for the only people I know who aren't related to me and still speak to me. I'm sure that if they stop speaking to me, my brother's writing won't be at fault.
  • I've had an essay published in this book. A pretty interesting book, if you're into that sort of thing.
  • Charles Martin explores Buddhism (and some other things) in a revived blog that I'm sure will be worth reading. So I've added it to my Best of Blogolalia list.
  • Rabbi Daniel Landes, co-founder and director of the PARDES Institute, a renowned multi-denominational center of Jewish study in Jerusalem, coined a phrase that I'm going to have made into bumper stickers: Jews for Exegesis.
  • He also invoked the Talmud as proof that Jews of radically different backgrounds could speak to each other -- even across centuries and continents. So why are Jews of different backgrounds having so much trouble speaking to each other today?, he asked.
  • Here's a doctor who says the only way to level the athletic playing field is to permit and regulate steroid use. He's been called "the loneliest man on the planet." And far worse.
  • That Airborne stuff actually works.
  • Hardest things I've ever done: 1) Meditate 2) Be a step-parent 3) Go onstage as Banquo's ghost, during a high-school matinee, drenched in chocolate syrup (it looks like blood under stage lights), and wearing only white body paint and a G-string. I think the director had it in for me. I looked like a sundae with legs.
  • Funniest thing Gabe ever said: "Why is Uncle Dick named after a private part?"
  • Middle Daughter is off on her journey to save the world again. She's the "World Traveler" on the family blog-roll.
  • Oldest Daughter has an intimidating internship with the Federal District of this outfit.
  • I haven't the slightest idea who I'm going to vote for in my state's primary. Tell me: who's fiscally conservative, understands the gravity and staying power of the threat from radical Islamic terror, recognizes that working men and women have their backs to the wall as never before, and knows what to do about it; has the guts, and the brains, to address health insurance, immigration, housing, and begin to revive our crappy reputation and foreign policy, without being beholden to special corporate or religious interests; and has the brains, the political capital and the respect necessary to assemble a top-flight Cabinet? And who isn't a TOTAL CREEP?!
  • If I were Donovan McNabb, I wouldn't want to finish my career before I had the chance to flatten Terrell Owens before a national television audience.
  • And if I saw Roger Clemens, I'd offer him this.

--T.A.

Author Andrew Keen to bloggers: Shut the hell up

For some reason, posting on this blog has recently felt like an actor's nightmare. I feel as if I'm dancing around naked (not a pretty sight, I assure you) in front of a sound-proof, one-way mirror, and that legions on the other side are either snorting in disgust or, more likely, not paying attention.

Last night, Andrew Keen's new book, The Cult of the Amateur: How Today's Internet is Killing our Culture, was discussed on the News Hour, and the author -- an erudite, irritated looking Brit -- was interviewed on the show.

His point seemed to be that we are all making too much noise, blathering on about our opinions with decreasing knowledge and increasing incivility. We're coalescing into oblasts of opinion, nuking others who don't agree with us, and in the process undermining civil discourse in larger or more traditional media venues that serve as the backbone of a democratic society.

Because we are all transformed into experts through the "radical democratization" of the Internet, we are losing the ability to listen and learn. Keen laments the death of expertise, fearing that it creates a din in the marketplace of ideas that drowns the most learned in the wrath of the loudest.

Becoming a doctor, a lawyer, a musician, a journalist, or an engineer requires a significant investment of one’s life in education and training, countless auditions or entrance and certifying excims, and commitment to a career of hard work and long hours. A professional writer spends years mastering or refining his or her craft in an effort to be recognized by a seasoned universe of editors, agents, critics, and consumers, as someone worth reading and paying attention to. Those in the movie industry submit to long hours, harried schedules, and insane pressure to create a product that will generate profit in a business in which expenses are high and hits are unpredictable. Can the cult of the noble amateur really expect to bypass all this and do a better job?

(His examples are revealing: he seems as concerned with losing his place as a writer and a font of knowledge as he is of YouTube swamping 20th Century Fox.)

Well, that's enough about Andrew Keen. Now, it's time for my opinion.

I can attest to the fact that blogging has created new relationships and new kinds of communities that don't replace, but that are also in no way inferior to, the traditional social or meritocratic circles that the author wistfully mentions. These communities coalesce around ideas, and voices, and values that can affect the world -- have affected my world -- for the better.

Keen acknowledges this, but thinks that the Web has become about chatter instead of change. When asked what he proposes to change, or what he wishes we would change in his interview last night, he said something like this: "I would ask that the 70 million bloggers in this country, when next sitting down at their computer, would honestly ask themselves, 'Does the world really need to know what I had for breakfast this morning?'"

Expertise is different from popularity, the author says. However, I would staunchly defend the expertise of Danny Miller or me True Ann-Sister: by virtue of their distinct kinds of omnivorous curiosity, they attract readers, divulge knowledge, explore new ideas, and participate in debates of their own creation with a depth to which a traditional expert would probably not condescend.

Unfortunately, as the author points out, civility is often trashed by the cloak of anonymity, and listening -- deeply, patiently taking in an author's point -- can die in a dumpster full of vituperative comment and libelous screed. Which is kind of fun -- like watching a train derail in slow motion.

But that's enough about me. What do you think of me?

--T.A.

The Millers

In another chapter of Life Meets Blogging, or Bloggers Meet in Life, a large group of us -- all five of my family, the Danny Miller family (complete with Kendall and Leah), and the Sue Miller family, minus her husband, who was on the road -- met at a great kosher restaurant just off Devon Avenue in Chicago and had a smashing time.

As Middle Daughter remarked, with some pride, "Only a kosher restaurant this small could be this loud." We all knew what she meant. There were 11 of us; Gabe got reacquainted with Spencer, but also met the love of his life -- a Ferrari parked across the street from the restaurant.

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It's the third time I've met Danny, the second time I've met Kendall, and Leah, and Sue, and Spencer. We may not be related, but then again ...

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If blogging offers nothing else, it offers new and improbable friendships.

(L to R: Sue Miller, Danny Miller, Spencer Tweedy, Leah Miller)

--T.A.

No ideas, no time; 'bye for now

The One True Wife's 50th birthday party was a smash, of course. About 100 of her favorite people showed up; she organized everything: the pie buffet, the seating arrangements, and a half-hour concert of borrowed and original music that was a tour of her first 50 years. Pretty impressive.

She said, earlier in the day, that one of the things that was hard about turning 50 was she hadn't realized her promise. Is there anyone who doesn't feel that way? I know I do.

And sometimes I know other things, too: like it's time to stop writing in this blog for awhile. There are times when I know exactly why I do this: that there are ideas or events that demand sharing with intimate strangers. And there are other times when I have no idea why I do this: when I feel like writing, and seeing my writing in "print," but I have nothing interesting or original to say about the world.

I've taken a hiatus or two before, but I always wind up not staying away for long. Just now, my writing feels like a massive waste of my time, so I am going to stay away for a good long while. Probably through Memorial Day, anyway. I'm having trouble concentrating, and blogging is actually obstructing rather than aiding my concentration.

So have a good May. See you around.

--T.A.

My nephew is back!

Of course, he never left. But he left the blog-world for about a year.

He's a 2nd-grade teacher in an inner-city public school. He knows his stuff.

Welcome back to blogging, Matt!

--T.A.

Additions to the Blog Roll

I don't update this thing often enough. And being a bit of a solipsist (tr: Grand Poobah of Self-Absorption), I don't read all that many blogs.

And when I go to another blog and they have 250 of their closest friends (tr: biggest fans) listed, I think to myself: "Really? You really read and like all those? Really?" (Note: the exception to this is my sister, who really does read all those blogs on her blog roll. Somehow.) Then I get a call at my desk at work or someone comes into my office needing me to actually do something, and I think, "Crap, how am I gonna get another 231 blogs on my blog roll if people keep bothering me?!!"

Like Alison, I think you have to really put up the ones that matter. I've got a few new ones.

Leah, the author of "Accidentally Jewish",is a Jew by choice who just became an adult bat mitzvah. Her observations on this whole process, and on Judaism, are interesting and funny.

Amy Guth is an author, improv artist and kosher vegetarian gourmand. I would love to hear her read from her new book. An escape from the suburbs is in order.

And Grant Miller is just funny as hell.

All the others are still there because I still read them and I still love them.

OK... just need 228 more...

--T.A.

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